Gay boys they want me it's all for the thrill
Say that I'm gorgeous forget that I'm real
They're chasing fantasies calling me "bro"
But i am a woman so I tell them "no"
Straight girls they see a boy a fixer upper
They're here to save me invite me to supper
They say "You were handsome look at you now!"
They only value me if I take a vow
I am spinning on my wheels caught in their gaze
Trapped in the middle of their validation is giving me quite a craze
I'm more than a story more than a dare
But it's hard to find love when nobody's there
Straight girls who want me are invalidating
Gay boys can break me without too much hate'in
Bi folks are cute until they call me bro
Straight boys so confused they think I am a show
Gay girls they love me without complications
Still it's rare that I get their invitations
Dating while not passing is such a thrill
So many who want you yet none of it real
Bi folks are sweet they like all the hues
But they trip over pronouns and can't take the cues
One day they're like "girl" the next it's a "dude"
I'm stuck in the middle of their identity feud
Straight boys swipe right then they get scared
It's a circus of confusion they're never prepared
They say they're "curious" but run for the hills
Like I'm some puzzle with too many thrills
I am spinning on my wheels caught in their gaze
Trapped in the middle of their validation is giving me quite a craze
I'm more than a story more than a dare
But it's hard to find love when nobody's there
Straight girls who want me are invalidating
Gay boys can break me without too much hate'in
Bi folks are cute until they call me bro
Straight boys so confused they think I am a show
Gay girls they love me without complications
Still it's rare that I get their invitations
Dating while not passing is such a thrill
So many who want you yet none of it real
Gay girls they get it they're mostly on track
But they've got their own struggles their own pushback
I'm too much too new or just too old
It's a maze with no map and a road made of gold
I'm holding out hope but I'm feeling the strain
Trying to find someone who sees through the pain
I'm stuck in this body that changes each day
Wondering if they'll love me or just run away
Straight girls who want me are invalidating
Gay boys can break me without too much hate'in
Bi folks are cute until they call me bro
Straight boys so confused they think I am a show
Gay girls they love me without complications
Still it's rare that I get their invitations
Dating while not passing is such a thrill
So many who want you yet none of it real
Maybe one day the noise will clear
The changes will settle the right one near
I'll find someone real who sees me whole
Beyond the thrill beyond the role
Till then I'm laughing I'm dancing around
In this dating circus I won't back down
So many who want you so few who stay
But I'm here I'm me and I'll find my way